‘Hi dear, you’ve got to see this, TOP 10 CASTED HOES in a certain University ‘…CRITICS instagram (a messgae popped in… i quickly opened my instagram account and searched the University critics and oh my…..
Its wasn’t funny…. thank God the page is down, but the hurt, bad image and shame….i don’t think it will fade out pretty soon and so I am inspired to write this. I wont come here to form ‘na me holy pass’ or mother mary’. But puhleeze let us talk true true to ourselves, because girls are always at the receiving end, because of the decision we make, i want to believe that before a guy sleeps with you, you must have given your consent except in cases of rape. Pls pls and pls let us weigh our decisions. Put a weighing balance in your head 24/7 , weigh the consequences. If you then feel after weighing the consequences, insurance got it covered…well goodluck.
Generally speaking, why do girls sleep around?
1. Emotional security
2. Financial security
By now, you are probably wondering, what is Temi saying….but pls hear me out. Thanks
Now lets take it one after the other:
Emotional security: fear of being lonely, ok…whoever said loneliness is a state of mind and it’s easy to remedy – LIED…uhn yes, if you are single and lonely, you may have probably heard this phrase, “get busy and loneliness will fade out”, well we have been busy but it doesn’t change how we feel. This is what i have to say, if you ever feel the need to explore ungodly sources in an attempt to temporarily relieve loneliness and pain with sex, drugs or alcohol, it cant and will never fix your problem. Do yourself a favour and take yourself out of that equation. It will save you from unnecessary heartache, drama and mayhem.
Finacial security: have you ever heard of “cut your coat according to your size”, if you haven’t, you are hearing it now. Create survival methods. Your background is no excuse.
. Acknowlege the problem
. Confess your sin
. Renew your relationship with God
. Surrender the issue to God
Lemme hear you say Amen!
DOSE OF TRUTH
Declare your cookie jar distribution officailly over. Be honest, you are tired of spreading your cookie around to every man that tickles your fancy. You simply need someone to give you a push in the right direction… well today is your day. You are better than this! There is a man out there who would love you enough, PATIENCE IS KEY, you can always seek other responsible means to get money and please embrace God. Perhaps you have slept with a few men, several men or so many and you can no longer count them on two hands. Unfortunately, your cookie dough distribution has gotten you nothing but a broken heart, a trip or trips to the abortion clinic and maybe sexually transmitted infections. Sister, the situation may look grim, but dont lose hope, there is still time to turn things around. We take off our dresses to give up the cookie much faster and easier because he is cute, probably the sex feels good, indomie and chicken, sharwarma, pizza, attention and compliments in regards to our beautiful boobs and butt size. For some people, a late night call set in motion can spark a full blown love making fest. Simple, fast, easy and its over. The cookie was free! A guy bangs a girl… Bring it to the round table.. Tell his friends… Increase his rep… The friends too will wanna have a taste… and if they can’t.. They’ll tell another friend(STOP BEING THE VICTIM). Cookie nation has become one big amusement park with lot of rides that don’t require a ticket and everyone is getting it for free. Ladies it’s high time we adopt good standards! Distributuon habits are hard to break, but it is not too late. You can rise above this, once you make a decision and a concious effort to stop.
I always say, when you point a finger at someone, the other four fingers are directed towards you. This is not only for you, its for us all #nobody holy pass eee# . Its high time we STOP giving up the cookie.
Thanks for reading…Themie loves you plenty!
#Cookie means SEX#
Gbadamosi Adeniyi Temitope😆😆😆😆
Blogs at www.themiesblog.com