A Nigerian lady identified as Oluchi Anne has told the world about one her greatest insecurities. The young lady revealed that she has the body of a 65-year-old woman despite being in her twenties.
The brave lady decided to talk about this part of her life as she has found energy to do so. Anne stated that she did not develop like a normal child as her bre@.$ts refused to form even when she was in primary five. Her situation was pathetic as she recalled having a boy in her class who had bre@.$ts.
We gathered that Anne had sought the help of a girl in her class out of desperation. The young girl then told her to apply palm oil on the peak and find an ant to bite her on the spot to facilitate the development of the bre@.$t.
Just when Anne had given up, her miracle came and she had bre@.$ts like normal girls. However, her bre@.$ts were referred to as banana bre@.$ts as they were saggy and not pointed like most of the girls she looked up to.
The weird comment she has heard from others about people with her kind of body saddens her. Some say girls like that have probably nursed all the children in the world or are wayward.
Anne has gotten over that as she said she is no longer interested in remedies. She is comfortable with her body and has decided to stay positive.
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I feel like a twenty-something-year-old with the bre@.$ts of a 65-year-old woman. I have sagging bre@.$ts.
IN THE BEGINING
Just so you know, my bre@.$ts didn’t start growing at the time I had anticipated. When I was in primary 5, my chest region was as flat as a newborn. There were no signs my bre@.$ts were going to grow. I didn’t even have a large N!.ppls. Most of the girls in my class had well-rounded tits sitting comfortably on their chest. To make matters worse, there was a fat boy in my class who had bre@.$ts ( probably because of his weight). I didn’t like him one bit as he had something I wasn’t able to have yet. I desperately wanted bre@.$ts as I believed having them would initiate me into a certain kind of womanhood cult every girl ought to belong to.
I decided to take matters into my hands so I asked for help from the expert. Toyosi was the girl with the biggest B@.0bs in my class back then so I asked her how I was supposed to grow some and she gave me the ultimate bre@.$t enlarging solution. She told me to apply palm oil on my N!.pplss and find a black ant to bite me on the spot where I applied the palm oil. She explained the swelling will make them grow out and assured me of the efficacy of the remedy as she had gotten it from her mother. I couldn’t get the black ant I caught to bite me on my N!.pplss. For whatsoever reason, the ant didn’t find me good enough to be bitten.
By the time I entered Jss2, I still had no bre@.$ts and my period had not even started. I gave up on my bre@.$ts dream and figured I would be the first woman without bre@.$ts and periods.
I had already accepted my fate and took my mind off the possibility that I would be a well endowed busty girl. Just when I had given up hope, my bre@.$ts started coming out. The whole situation reaffirmed the fact that most times, we get that thing we desperately want when we stop obsessing over it.
My bre@.$ts came out but they didn’t come out the way I anticipated. They were small and pointed downwards. I grew up seeing women who had well-rounded bre@.$ts that pointed forward so I imagined that was how it would be for me.
Someone close to me says I have banana bre@.$ts. My “B@.0bs” are saggy and small. They do not stand but point downwards. I hated my body for a long while and I wasn’t comfortable with my appearance. I kept trying all sorts of bre@.$ts enlarging and firming creams that just didn’t work.
I have been told to avoid V-necked shirt so my B@.0bs don’t show. I have been told to avoid taking pictures from the neck down. I have been told to hide my bre@.$t as they were unattractive. I have been told to wear bras to bed. I have been given all sorts of recommendations.
I did all I was told to do till I realized that nothing is going to change because this is just how I am. Every woman is different and our body parts come in different shapes and sizes. Just like some men have small p*nis and others have fairly big ones so do some women have different bre@.$ts sizes and shape.
This is not a cry for help. I do not need your home remedies for sagging bre@.$ts. Neither do I need your bre@.$ts enlargement cream or your recommendation of the perfect surgeon. My sagging B@.0bs isn’t as a result of the number of men I have slept with. It also has nothing to do with the number of abortions I may or may not have had. Science is yet to prove the relationship between sagging bre@.$ts, abortions and S3@.x:’. Till science does, I am right to say my sagging B@.0bs is a natural phenomenon.
I am comfortable with my body and there’s no shame in admitting how my body shape is. Self-love is very hard especially when we are being surrounded with altered images and edited content. Self-love is hard because the moment you try to be confident in your own body, you are shamed for it.
I have seen it all on Instagram. I have seen how people insult celebrities that dare display their sagging bre@.$ts or “show-off” their huge well-rounded tits. The other day, Laura Ikeji deactivated her comment section because people trolled her sales manager who wore a revealing cloth. In their words “how can she display her bre@.$ts that are not even standing?” Someone went further to say “they have sucked the life out of her bre@.$ts”.
Self-love is hard but I am loving myself nonetheless. I am a 20-something year old with sagging B@.0bs. I will wear V-necked shirts, I will take pictures of my body how I like and no, I will not wear bras all the time because my bre@.$ts need to breathe!
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